The Mostly Dating Blueprint
A course for anyone who’s tired of mixed signals, situationships, one-size-fits-all dating advice, and dating app matches that go nowhere.
“After years of being single and burnt out, I feel like I’m dating in a way that finally makes sense to me.”
Emily T.
“For the first time in a long time, dating actually feels exciting instead of draining. I’m not anxious before dates, I’m not overanalyzing after them, and I feel way more present.”
Jess L.
Dating shouldn’t feel like a part-time job.
Learn how to choose better, communicate better, and date in a way that leads to commitment.
The Mostly Dating Blueprint is an 8-module course, designed to help you move through the early dating stages with more ease, more clarity, and way fewer “what are we?” spirals.
It’s part psychology, part strategy, and a whole lot of what actually worked for me—after years of trial and error.
You won't find any "rules" or "tricks" in this course. Instead, you'll be guided to discover what you're truly looking for in a relationship, and you'll walk away with actionable steps to attract the love you deserve.
What's included:
🎥 8 video modules (watch at your own pace)
📝 150-page interactive workbook with prompts & guides
🔐 Lifetime access (revisit whenever you want)
Designed to be followed in order, so you always know what to do next.
What you'll learn:
How to figure out what you actually want (+ how to get it)
How to feel confident & grounded, even when things are uncertain
How to build the best dating app profile
How to approach people in real life (+ the best places to meet them)
How to master first & early dates
How to build both chemistry and compatibility
How to text, communicate, & set boundaries
How to spot emotional availability, green flags, & real relationship potential
My complete guide to defining the relationship
Kyle S.
“This course completely changed how I think about chemistry. I used to confuse intensity with connection. The lessons on compatibility and early dating helped me stop getting pulled into the wrong dynamics and figure out how I actually want to feel in a relationship.”
The Lineup:
Module 1: Looking Back To Move Forward
In this module, we’ll discuss attachment styles, dating rules and advice I wish everyone would unlearn, lessons we can learn from past relationships, and how to spot our dating patterns and blindspots.
Module 2: Getting Clear On What You Want
This module is all about really dialing in on what you're looking for—but it's not your classic "list" exercise. We're going to get super clear on what you bring to a relationship, how you want to feel in a relationship, and actual steps you can take to call in the partner you deserve.
Module 3: Learn To Date With Confidence
This module will help you identify and acknowledge limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck, and learn to reframe them. You'll get real, actionable tips for how to build confidence from within (nope, not "fake it 'til you make it").
Module 4: Mastering The Dating Apps
Welcome to your dating app bootcamp. Yes, I know the world is frustrated with the apps right now—but think of them as a tool. They're not the end-all-be-all, but they are a great way to access thousands of people you might never cross paths with otherwise. You'll learn all my best research-backed tips for how to create the best profile, how to have better conversations, and how to get off the apps and on a date IRL.
Module 5: Communication 101: Boundaries, Texting, & Approaching IRL
This module goes deep into how to approach people in real life, signs you need better boundaries, examples of boundaries you should set in early dating (+ how to set them naturally), and how to navigate texting in the early dating stages.
Module 6: The First Date Blueprint
Okay, time for the fun stuff. Yes: Dating should be fun! This module is gold. You'll get my massive list of 50+ unique date ideas that are proven to build connection, questions and conversation starters, first date confidence tips, and research-backed tips for being more likable on early dates. Plus, you'll get my post-date reflection worksheet to help you decide if YOU want to go on another date.
Module 7: Decoding The Early Dating Stage
Consider this module your "get-out-of-situationship-free" card. We don't want to get stuck in the talking stage! This module will guide you through early signs a relationship is right, things you should know by certain dates, and my viral theory on the types of dates you should always go on before defining the relationship.
Module 8: Your Complete Guide to Defining the Relationship (DTR)
We made it! This is my favorite topic in the entire world, because it's something that I know brings so many people anxiety. And, let's be honest, we've all fumbled the DTR talk. This module will help you decide for sure if this relationship is right for you by breaking down things you should know before DTR, signs it's time to DTR, and how to actually bring up defining the relationship.
Why I created this course
Because I've been there. I’ve experienced the cycles, the spirals, and the “is this going anywhere?” phase more times than I can count.
I was burnt out by the modern dating scene and frustrated by the one-size-fits-all dating rules that just weren't working for me. I read the self-help books, studied the psychology of dating and relationships, and interviewed hundreds of dating experts on my podcast.
I developed a framework to start dating differently—and everything changed.
This course is the exact framework I used to stop settling and attract the relationship I wanted. It’s the guide I needed when I was stuck—and I truly would have given anything for it at the time.
Who it's for:
this program is for you if...
💔 you keep attracting people who aren’t emotionally available
💔 you’re getting stuck in talking stages or situationships
💔 you feel like dating works for everyone else but you
💔 you think there just isn't anyone left out there for you
💔 you're burnt out from modern dating & sick of all the rules
💔 you want to date with more confidence, clarity, and real connection
Meet Carleigh
podcast host, dating coach, & creator of @mostlydating
I spent years navigating the modern dating scene—spiraling through situationships, toxic relationships, and one-size-fits-all advice that led me nowhere.
Until one day I decided to put in the work, get clear on what I really wanted, and stop settling.
Now I help others do the same.
Through my platform @mostlydating and hundreds of podcast interviews with top relationship experts, I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of people date with more clarity, confidence, and better results.
This course brings that all together into one actionable guide to improve your dating life and attract the relationship you deserve.
“I’m actually feeling excited about dating in 2026 after binging your course last week! THANK YOU.”
Maggie S.